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APRIL 2013 Destination America Destination America and Beyond and Beyond Sawgrass Golf Sawgrass Golf Resort Resort Ready to Walk the Runway 5 Questions Katie Radecki Also in This issue Using LaUghter as Medicine the trUth WiLL set YoU Free Katharine hepbUrn springtiMe desserts In This Issue 2 Stock Photos Dorita Tolbert (Owner Publisher) Tom Gonzales (Operations Manager Magazine Layout) Jennett Anderson (Administrative) Eugene Tolbert (Human Resurces Director) Lindsey Pavlyuchek (Digital Marketing and Photography Director) Samira Vaziri (Event Coordinator) Angela Harper (Logo Designer) Kelly Wagnon (Senior Editor) Lazaro Pavon (Editor) Ashley Newkirk (Editor) Contributors Mark Dudley (Spritulality Christianity) Thuli Mphasa Dennis Lay Viktor Franovik Laurie Krawczyk Tom Krawczyk Libby Ross Jazmine Murphy 3 Looking Dapper for an Easter Celebration By Thuli Mphasa Photo by Jazmine Murphy You walk into that function family gathering or church service and three other girls happen to be wearing that same shift dress that you bought the night before at a discount store. It s too late to walk out and look for another but you promise never to go through that and you never buy your dresses from that discount store again.Clothing is an essential canvas of who we are and often we think our personalities are different from everyone else thus we think that no other person is like us and we are in our own light unique. Wrong--we are a universal community of the same type of people. The difference is our location. Sometimes your next door neighbour could have the exact qualities that build up a persona just as you and chances are more often than not you ll think the girl next door must truly envy you because she is an exact replica of you. Not only is she thinking the same thing but she pretends you re the loony bin in this whole equation. dress up in and never look like the girl next door or those three other girls at the church service this 4 never be anything on display. Yes the best items in a store are mainly put on that window display but how can you look good with everything else that has been stacked away at the back of the store shelves without looking better than every other girl in the room Simple that s why there are trend reports and occasional fashion weeks all around the world. The focus of all of these events is based on trend shifting. The latest DKNY dress doesn t necessarily mean that the actual dress color and detail is what you should buy--chances are the rest of the neighbourhood fashion fundi s saw the same dress on display and will get one too. Now your aim is to look deeper and think past what the naked eye can and make sure you look drop dead gorgeous in less than a second minus the camping out at those the fashion week dresses you saw on the runway. In 3 easy steps you will learn how to put together O of your era. This will be a basic ensemble of the dress coat jacket and shoes. Namely cut color and detail. 1. CUT The dress look out for modern silhouettes this season straight clean silhouettes are coming back in. You want to look out for hemlines that stretch just beneath the family gathering or a church service but is also one hem length that is suitable for all heights. Necklines will be cut real deep mostly geometric cut outs but for every deep neckline there is an accompanying short neckline. V-neck and square necklines should be your go to area for a woman with a fuller bust you re looking to get a V-neck--it not only gives your bust a more slimmer and appealing look but it gives you an elegance that you won t create with the spoken word. For women with a smaller bust it s the ultimate square neckline. And it does the opposite of the V-neck by giving your bust a wider look and making small beBe on the lookout for extra bits like elbow length sleeves for short women--if your arm is a bit chunky steer away from gathered leg-o-mutton sleeves. Taller women have the option of going for an elbow length dress or sleeveless dress as per arm excess. Desirable fabrics for this season are lightweight felt chiffon satin and lace. The coat the coat will be one ensemble of every dress with sleeves pick a sleeveless shouldn t be too overbearing--simplicity and elegance is all it should say but this doesn t mean in the slightest that a plain old bolero will be the best thing you can throw over a dress. In fact this is the worst piece of clothing many women have continuously that shouldn t make the dress. After all you still have to look good with it off. A waist length coat is great for petite women with a dress that has a seam at the waist. This and not only do you look slimmer but you add a bit of height to your body. For taller women you will have to go the extra mile with a coat that goes right beneath the hip area. A coat that is paired with a dress should never go beneath the actual hem length of the dress. In this instance for both types of women the coat shouldn t have a collar or lapel this style is a less tailored coat and more lifestyle wear piece of garb. shoes. We have the most favored platform stiletto it s fuller in the front and slimmer at the back. Preferably this would be ideal for a slimmer woman whether tall or short ette can carry the extra weight with your slim look. For fuller women it should be a pump style stiletto which gives your legs a slender appeal and your curves become more appealing with the entire attention drawn right beneath that knee length dress hem line. Patent leather and suede are your destinations for fabrication of shoes and this is the one area without restriction. COLOR The dress it s a celebration although this isn t a go ahead for the most elaborate colors but instead for the most sensible. Black is off the radar gone are the days black would be considered a desirable color for any woman looking to appear slimmer elegant and highly sophisticated. Color is will be a great big task. All women can wear the same color given their shape and height except there is a point where we have to (continued on pg 9) 5 Designer Easter Eggs Photos by Lindsey Pavlyuchek By Thuli Mphasa the ages. In Eastern religion meat and dairy are not consumed and it is at Easter time that eggs are boiled and presented as gifts for children and servants. This custom could be one of the many reasons why eggs are considered an Easter tradition. Across the world many religions have incorporated the egg in celebrations during Easter and springtime. Easter eggs have taken on many forms with the very olate covered marshmallows with a yellow marshmallow at the centre representing the yolk of an egg. The tradition progressed into moulded eggs with hollow centres or chewy and sticky bits at the centre of the eggs. With further innovation there have been other elements such as the Easter bunny added to one of Easter s many symbolic components. Over the years different egg concepts have come to pass and one that has stayed is the designer egg. Designers worldwide have come to produce many jewelled egg designs and some porcelain painted eggs. Turning this modern trend into a fetish for lovers of the Easter egg most of these designer eggs have fast become collector items. designer eggs this one was one of a kind though. Gustav Farbege founded the House of Farbege a Russia. The House of Farbege has a great reputation for their jewel-encrusted egg designs. It was Gustav s son Carl Farbege s intricate work and exhibition at the Hermitage museum that led to an esteemed title of Goldsmith by special appointment to the Imperial Crown and by this a lifelong friendship would be Over the years Easter has become the time to get in touch with your inner child. We have activities such as Easter egg hunts in the garden and the chance to just eat that chocolate egg without guilt. Chocolate companies have improved commercial appeal of Easter products bringing in more products such as the Easter bunny chicken and basket chocolate moulds. In this modern day and time designer eggs are fast becoming a great trend too giving the older Easter egg consumer a more mature take and association with the trend. Eggs have always been a tradition around Easter celebrations in religion and the spring season in Eastern countries. The exact origin of the actual incorporation of the egg is not precise as with many traditions created. It somehow started off a simple habit with the conditions of the activities taking place around this fast or ancient Persian New Year eggs have become a symbol in marking the beginning and end and it is every man to his own. The global unison shared with the egg that I have found through research is that the egg vital aspect of new life and fertility. For whatever reason you choose to incorporate the egg into your Easter celebrations know that a million other people are with you in spirit celebrating the very same essence that you have chosen. Easter eggs are widely associated with a childlike fantasy of the Easter bunny. We have over the years had an impression that at this time of year the Easter bunny is the carrier of these wonderful treats. But how did eggs become associated with Easter The Easter egg has represented new life and fertility throughout 6 had the House of Farbege create an Easter egg for the Empress Maria Ferdonorva his wife. This egg was one of a kind as it had many compartments in it and could be opened four times over to reveal three different jewels inside. First it reveals a gold yolk then a gold chicken which then opens to reveal a replica of the Imperial Crown from which a small ruby egg was suspended. Over the years Tsar Alexander made this into a tradition and the Empress would receive an egg every Easter as a gift from him. The House of Farbege Farbege went on to design the Brut cologne and many other entities under their brand. To date there have been websites popping up to give the ordinary person a run through making your own designer eggs for display at the dinner table egg hunts staged in the garden to be given as gifts. The Easter egg is another one of those international symbols that ties the whole world together. It is during this time that most this celebration in progress. help you give your Easter spirit a kick start and this time you don t have to go out and buy expensive eggs that you cringe at the thought of consuming or giving as gifts link (http holiday-crafts easter-egg ) link ( ) link (http posts diy-all-natural-easter-egg-dyes) 7 Using Laughter as Medicine By Jennett A. Anderson When life throws you challenges it s no laughing matter. But when you use laughter as medicine sometimes that s all you need. going. Soon that stress turned into occurrences of persistent overwhelming nervous ness that seemed to settle deep within the pit of my stomach. less to say at that point using laughter as medicine was not in the cards. from a good friend of mine. She wanted to share with me a dating misadventure she d had the previous night. Always a great storyteller the deeper she got in her sto effort to always have a source of amusement readily available to me. Whether it is keeping my funniest friend on speed dial a cache of my favorite YouTube videos on again. 8 have to look for shade and unlike hemlines and necklines color should complement not only your body shape but your complexion as well. As free and democratic a world we live in not all things are made for everyone and besides the aim is to make a statement not a festive carnival right For a darker skinned woman pastel pallets are a must have for this edition. There are 3 pallets to look for yellow blue and green. Not only are these colors vibrant but they break the stereotype and allow for you to go the extra mile in looking like a beaut. Pastel pallets are much softer than actual primary colors with the appeal that they have been dipped in a shade of milky white to almost give a toned look and downplay the actual brightness of the color. For a fairer skinned woman you could go for an actual yellow from the primary pallet and the pastels too are an option. For a lighter skinned woman a primary pallet of the colors would be more sensible and will suit you well. The coat & shoes a complimentary color should go with the shoe. Not only can all items be of each of the 3 colors but you can pair them as per color scheme for a yellow dress a green shoe and coat will do. Have fun with this bit--there are no set restrictions. 2. DETAIL The dress coat & shoe detail is of the essence but not a great big bother. For all 3 items stay as far away as possible from the diamante and metallic detail on shoulders. If anything for every personality there is a little bit of want and need for detail. If you should take the initiation and really feel like it is a life and death situation minimal touches of these details should apply and if these details do not go for the same detail in the other two pieces. With that said now you re equipped with the 3 most vital tools in ensuring that you not only become the envy of that family gathering or church service this Easter but you ll have no regrets about going to that discount store and no more camping out at designer retailers the night before. African Designer 9 By Ashley Newkirk Springtime Lunch Appetizers It s springtime and it s the time of year to have your friends and family over for a get-together. The weather is great and it s time to start spending time in the sun after being bundled up all winter. I am writing in four parts different recipes to pull together a get-together full of great refreshing mouth-watering and light spring foods. Appetizers are a great way to kick off a get-together. Most would say a get-together isn t one at all without appetizers. Spring gives you a great opportunity to try new scrumptious appetizers other than the ones we commonly expect such as pigs in a blanket chips and salsa and party meatballs. I have two great refreshing recipes that will change the way you look at appetizers and will make you want to add to your list of starters. refreshing starter for any meal.. If you did not know shrimp helps with the healthy growth of hair and skin due to the amount of protein found in shrimp. It s full of omega 3 fatty acids which is proven to it also helps stabilize blood sugar and keep thyroids healthy. Oven baked garlic lemon shrimp hour prior to serving Note cup olive oil cup chopped parsley 10 and toss to coat. Cover and chill in the fridge for one hour. After they have chilled rinse well and drain making sure to pat dry with a paper towel so that the coating will stick. Return the shrimp to a bowl and add the olive oil parsley lemon peel garlic pepper and the rest of the Caribbean jerk seasoning. Toss The second starter that will change people s view on appetizers is avocado spring rolls. This appetizer is very light cool and appealing to the eye. Avocado Spring Rolls your cucumber and cut into medium thick slices and place on the cream cheese. Take your avocado second way to prepare the spring roll is to take the avocado and mash until smooth and combine it with the cream cheese then spread the mix onto the spring roll layering it with your medium to thick cut of cucumber. These two appetizers are a sure way to win the hearts of your guests as well as win over their stomachs. dessert. Stick around for my next three articles on a Springtime Lunch to bring your get-together full circle. 11 Dearborn MI The City of Diversity By Laurie Krawczyk Dearborn is known as the Cool City. I believe this is because we are a model of making true diversity work religions multi-cultural neighborhoods food holidays activities and more. The businesses schools and government all work together amazingly well. What a great opportunity for people to see the different facets of the community operating as one We have the largest mosque in the country right here in Dearborn. We also have mosques located throughout the city one of which is located right across the street from our local Dearborn Sausage and Ham Company. There s also a Catholic Church right next to another mosque. There s even a Christian church that shares their building with a group so that they can have their Moslem services on Sunday afternoons. How s that for diversity working at its best We have many different businesses here in the area. We are primarily known as the home of Ford Motor Company. Multiple factories around the city of Dearborn and Detroit are base for the creators of the many Ford models and for distribution centers for this Photos by Kimberly Bratic amazing company. Ford Motor Company sponsors an amazing Museum known as The Henry Ford. It is the largest indoor and outdoor museum of its kind and shows many acres of memories from our past that covers diversity in so many ways. It ranges from Thomas Edison s lab to the Wright Brother s home from glass blowing shops and some of the original farms (including Firestone s) to farm houses that have been restored assembly line of Henry Ford. The ethnicity of our town includes Polish German Arabic and European cultures melded together in this relatively small town of 97 000. Our Arabic population makes up the largest ethnic group here but it also has its own cultural diversity encompassing Iraqi Lebanese Yemeni Syrian and Palestinian subgroups. The food opportunities here are amazing We have fresh fruit markets all over town. Each market is associated with the different villages in the Middle Eastern area that they have come from allowing inexpensive produce to be available to us every day. Where else 12 in the northeastern side of this country can you buy fresh mangos or pomegranates anytime of the year Having such a high population of Middle Eastern people in our area has created many Arabic restaurants that produce some amazing food and baked goods for us to enjoy I love my tabbouleh fattoush baklava and my favorite shawarma sandwiches Now I just need to learn how to make these amazingly healthy and delicious dishes We also have incredibly diverse holidays celebrated here. We have Christmas Hanukkah Eid Ramadan Kwanzaa and Hajj. The schools actually close not only for Christmas like the rest of the country but they also close for Eid. Eid is the festival that celebrates the end of Ramadan. We have so much to do and see here from local Friday music concerts in the summer many parks with city pools that have different events on the weekends and the museums to the largest IMAX theatre. You can even tour the Rouge (Ford) factory plant. There is also the Fairlane mall which is 3 stories and full of so many stores you could spend a whole weekend just in there You can also take a drive to the East side of Dearborn and it s like driving into Lebanon. All of the signs are in Arabic with multiple small businesses that cater to the culture of each particular village from their Middle Eastern corner of the world We have a plethora of opportunities here to see the world from a different perspective than most people will ever have a chance to see Our diversity yells from the rooftops to tell the world that it can be an amazing opportunity to learn grow and teach each other about ourselves. Coming to Dearborn is a must It is a great place to visit but an even more incredible place to live I love this cool city. I know you will too 13 Unrestricted By Mark Dudley Photo by Libby Ross G -- General Audiences PG -- Parental Guidance Suggested Some PG-13 -- Parents Strongly Cautioned Some MaR -- Restricted and NC-17 -- No One 17 and Under Admitted. These - - 14 15 A New Easter A New Self To every man a new life. It is around most religious holidays that we are given yet another chance to either be to start over by turning a new page to the many chapters of our lives. We seldom look into the real meaning of any religious holidays and could so easily imply the meaning of each religious holiday. Yet another religious holiday has come into the works and this one has brought with it a sensible spirit of gratitude just as any other would. Except this time I urge you to fully take the time out and consider what this time means both truthfully to you and its intended meaning. The resurrection of Christ has not only become one of the Bible s greatest recorded miracles but the one way Jesus chose to prove the authenticity of his preaching on this very earth--that of him being the son of God. This not only became a way to defy the enemy but to give his believers a chance at a new life walking beside him and once again a renewed and strengthened faith. The idea that Jesus died for the sins of man does not lend full impact when an ordinary unknowing individual doesn t understand that it was not God s will for his who requested this and willingly saw the importance of this act. Now in resurrection Jesus not only proved his authenticity but he proved to man that they had been forgiven and could begin to walk well in his light. Not only do we have to recognize Jesus deity but we have to acknowledge the importance of a time like this and learn to practice the spirit of a new self and have gratitude for God s grace upon the human race. New self comes into play when we make the will to start over when we look past our mistakes and give ourselves the in human acts for as long as we are on this earth. To be human has its perks and drawbacks. Sometimes we will do good and other times we will do bad for every man that beats himself up for doing wrong a long road to new life is yet to be laid out for him it is merely a process of accepting our mistakes and acknowledging that we can begin to curb and possibly turn our ways around. Rome was not built in one day and the one element that drives any religious faith is belief in the intangible. Believing that we can become better than we are is a great possibility as per man s faith in the most high. To do good with the intention to win God s favor is not a genuine practice of a Christian self. Committing good acts should be a quality embedded in your Christian self and it is with no expectance for our goodness that we reap a greater connection and relationship with God. This is a joint idea with the will of Easter--that we take on the death and resurrection of Christ as a pathway new selves a chance to do and look to that to help us become what we should. My emphasis in this piece is to be as human as we possibly can be take the time out and consider all that different points of our lives and not only be grateful for them but to practice the same type of compassion and giving spirit that others have practiced for us. Whether it s a man giving up his seat on the bus for a pregnant woman or a child helping a blind man cross the street it could be big or it could be small but in a true sense of goodness there is no weight on good and bad intentions for they all come from the same place the heart. Thus in creating a premeditated celebration this Easter holiday it is time for us to acknowledge the true gift of our lives and realize what it is we would like to allow ourselves to do over be it in our lives or in the lives of those around us. 16 17 Beautiful Woman By Viktor Franovik I have been so inspired by the girls I work with they have gone from cute kids to beautiful women. Such is the case with Lauren Goodman whom we met at the age of 13 when we judged the Miss Earth Florida and Miss Teen Earth Florida pageants. We were 10 judges from all walks of life photographers business men and women makeup artists stylists designers and beauty queens from other pageant systems. The pageant director walked in with her staff to go over the rules and instruct us how to ask the questions and if we deemed necessary to ask more questions to please do so--show no mercy. She wanted her delegates to become prepared young women of the world. The pageant director left and the doors intimated and others completely care free. Lauren was not and trick questions most failed because of nerves. Some thought they were going to get by on their looks and or talent alone. The second group walk in these were delegates from the Miss category--immediately I saw the winner of the Miss Division. This time the established questions were more worldly since these were the ladies to drill and talk about their platforms. Again we already knew who had won this Miss Division. The third group walked in the young Miss and Lauren were in this group. Lauren glowed her smile and hair were perfect she was poised and ready. The other girls were invisible to me my eyes were focused on Lauren. We had questions for all the ladies but most questions were directed to Lauren. The fourth and last group to walked in this was the Miss 18 Delegates. As the pageant was about to start we were moved to a private room and then escorted to our tables 2 tables of 5 across from each other. Up on stage we saw several crowns with different stone colors we knew the crowns with clear stones were for the winners. The other colors represented It was a long pageant talent was part of the ladies curriculum and some sang some recited some played an instrument and others danced. Lauren danced and was an accomplished ballet dancer--very beautiful--and danced to her own interpretation of Swan Lake. The winners were called and I was right the one I predicted won the Miss Earth division and to my amazement Lauren did not win the Miss Teen Earth title someone who did not make an initial impact won. Lauren placed with Miss Teen Earth Water and the others placed with the other elements. Meanwhile Francisco and I saw a huge potential in Lauren and her future. We met with her mother Carmen and were immediately on good terms. We took Lauren under our wing and over the next few years did photo shoots introduced her to photographers and put her in different looks and styles. We did not have to do much though--Lauren was a natural. The dance experience also helped her. The poses were massive strong and crazy beautiful. Her facial expressions were regal and demanding. Lauren was our muse and we included her in everything from editorial shoots to fashion shows. She was soon in high demand. Carmen Lauren s mom who was also business savvy took the reins of her daughter s career and ran with it. Now Lauren has shot and walked for bigger names and has been included in all the big fashion shows of Florida New York and the world. Lauren has been signed by agencies she is in such demand that she has changed from agency to agency. She has done product commercials been in Spanish soaps TV shows music videos and higher end editorials. Lauren is quite the model dancer actress (triple threat) and I am so proud that we are her godfathers in fashion. We will see wonderful things from Miss Lauren watch for her. You can also see more pictures of Lauren on our websites and Always think Elegance think Elegant Dreams 19 Spring Time Lunch Entr e April is here and spring is in full swing. So open your kitchen window and let the crisp clean air fill every inch of your home. Spring is the perfect time to make delicious light meals. In four parts I will be sharing with you delicious recipes to create a full meal for you to share with your friends and families. Spring also brings the perfect opportunity to play on citrus juices and spices. The following recipe is a citrus filled roasted chicken dish with a pleasing aroma. Lemon Lime and Garlic Roasted Chicken cup of olive oil 10 garlic cloves minced cups of any dry white wine of your choice 1 tbl of lemon zest 1 tbl of lime zest 2 tbl of fresh squeezed lemon juice 2 tbl of fresh squeezed lime juice 2 tsp of minced fresh thyme leaves 1 tsp of salt salt and pepper seasoned to your preference 6 boneless chicken breasts 1 lemon 1 lime 4 tbl butter Preheat oven to 415 degrees. 20 By Ashley Newkirk In a small pot over medium low heat warm the olive oil and garlic for 2 minutes do not let the garlic burn or turn brown. Once you take it off the heat add in the wine the zests and juice from both the lemon and the lime thyme and the 1 teaspoon of salt. Pour the sauce mix into a 9 X 12 baking pan. Once the sauce mix is placed in the pan make sure the chicken breasts are dry and place them in the sauce and brush the sauce onto the chicken. Sprinkle with salt and pepper and add 1 tablespoon of butter. Cut the lemon and lime into wedges and place around or on the chicken breast. Place in the oven for 30 to 40 minutes depending on the size of the chicken. Once cooked if not browned enough place under the broiler for 2 minutes or until brown. Once finished place the last tablespoon of butter cover tightly with aluminum foil and let it sit for ten minutes. Serve in pan juices. This delicious chicken is the perfect light and refreshing entr e to enjoy during springtime. Make this dish for a group of friends during lunch along with all the other delicious recipes and it will be a springtime lunch that will be unforgettable. WWW.FACEBOOK.COM ELEGANTDREAMSMAGAZINE HTTPS TWITTER.COM E_D_MAGAZINE 21 The Truth Will Set You Free By Jennett A. Anderson Photo by Dennis Lay You will know the truth and the truth will set you my friend was emotionally and verbally abused by her mother. Every day she heard that she stupid worthless and a failure. Her mother told her that she was ugly and fat and not good enough. No man will ever want you she screamed. She grew up afraid of women and hating herself. Why can t I be different she wondered. She believed her mother s estimation of herself and lived in defeat. She grabbed attention any way and anywhere she could and by the time she was twenty-three she had three abortions on her medical record. The guilt and shame of those abortions compounded her feelings of worthlessness. But something amazing happened to her when she was twenty-four. She accepted Jesus as her Lord and Savior and became a new creation. She knew that God forgave her the moment she asked totally and completely. However Satan continued to remind her of the terrible mistakes of her past. How could I have killed my children What would my friends think if they knew the truth I can never let anyone know about my past. Some things are simply unforgivable in human eyes. She met and married a wonderful Christian man. They began their life of ministry as he became a pastor of a church in a small community. God blessed them with three wonderful children but still the shame of her past lingered. I felt so unworthy of my husband s love she said. I felt I wasn t good enough to be his wife. I never told him about my past. It was a secret that weighed me down. She went to a women s retreat and picked up a book that stuck out Your Scars are Beautiful to God. And little girl heart. She realized that is was Satan who 22 continued to taunt her with those lies and make her feel as if they were true. Then she did something that really made the enemy mad. She forgave her mother. Even though her mother had since died she forgave her as if she were standing before her that very day. She imagined Jesus erasing away all her faults especially the ones that her mother had so maliciously written on the chalkboard of her mind. All gone she said. I m set free. But there was one more step to her freedom. See as long as she kept her past a secret she would never be totally free. I prayed all day and night for the courage to tell my husband about the three abortions and I tions but me. I had to tell my husband the secret so Satan could not use it against me any longer. Finally I did it. I told him the truth. But he did not react the way I imagined he would. He held me in his arms and cried. I can t believe you have held on to this for so long alone he said. My friend went on to say I am no longer shameful. I am pure. I am no longer ugly. I am beautiful. I am no longer unlovable. I am dearly loved. She recognized the lies and rejected them. She replaced the lies with truth. She is now walking in the truth as a holy chosen dearly loved child of God. What do you think Is there some secret in your life that the enemy is holding over you Do you want to be free Often an important step to freedom after receiving God s forgiveness is telling someone and using what you have been through to help others. Then the enemy can t use it against you any longer. If you don t have a trusted friend with whom to share I would like to be that friend. Want More It s time to renew your mind and think God s thoughts rather than being held in bondage by the enemy s deceptions. blank in with smart talented gifted spiritual or any number of positive attributes. But the root source of each one of those lies is I m not good enough. It is one of the enemy s favorite weapons and he uses it to keep God s children in bondage to feelings of inferiority insecurity and inadequacy. The bottom line is the enemy wants you to believe that you are not enough. Period. But you are good enough. You are enough and have been equipped by God and empowered by the Holy Spirit to do everything that God has called you to do. God created man and woman and said It is good. We are so valuable to God that He gave His only Son to restore our brokenness. To be honest I could have been the poster child for the lie I m not good enough. If feeling inadequate was an Olympic event I would have been on the Corn Flakes box. See that picture above That is my kindergarten class. Now look and see who is the most insecure scared looking kid in the class I wonder if you can spot me. Insecurity was the undercurrent of my entire existence Many women are living in silent defeat comparing themselves to other women who are living in secret defeat. I m not a good mother. I m not a good wife. I m not a good Christian. I m not a good witness. I m not a good housekeeper. I m not a good decorator. I m not a good cook. I m not a good.... Women are caught in a cycle of the I m not good enough. One created us to be. Like sticker tape our fragmented parade passing by. Unfortunately I wasted many precious years held captive by the enemy s lies before I held up my chained hands to God and said I m ready for you to set me free. 23 27 24 5 Questions with Katie Radecki EDM What is your favorite movie KR e Notebook. It is the best love story ever written 25 EDM What is your idea of elegance KR A woman who carries herself well and 26 is humble like Audrey Hepburn. 27 EDM What are your ambitions in life KR To become a Veterinary Assistant and to model in Los Angeles and New York. 28 Photos by Dennis Lay EDM Who is your favorite Super Model KR Heidi Klum. She always has good things written about her nothing negative and is a good Mother. EDM What is a romantic evening for you KR Looking at the stars while I am laying on a blanket with the one I love. 29 Kill the Fear By Laurie Krawczyk Have you ever wondered why people want to try and do something new but are unable to take that step and yet they keep talking about it It s like they are on a hamster wheel-- they go faster and faster with their words but never get anywhere. It s Time to Change Challenging and testing your belief systems is a very good idea by the beliefs of others. People can project their own attributes on to us and not be aware that they are talking about themselves. A good example of this is if a friend says to you that they didn t enjoy their holiday in France and wouldn t recommend going there this causes you to never attempt visiting France even if given the opportunity. We can just accept that as fact. We all have had someone tell us a story about a bad situation or trip they took. In many of those cases we ll never do that thing but occasionally we re given the opportunity to go and do the thing and our experience is completely different . It s the same about what you believe about yourself. I m not good at math. I ll never be as successful as him. These words spoken over us or situations from our past will affect us in this way. However it doesn t mean that we can t try again and do things in a different way. Try different approaches. Change your methods of approach. Trying different angles or different self-talk can change the moment or the future. Challenge yourself with different thoughts and different events to change the way you look at new situations. The Reasons The way we are raised with thoughts about money and what our parents have taught us will affect how we think about it for ourselves. Here are some things that I ve heard people say. I don t like these comments and get concerned when I can t get folks to change their self-talk That s how the other half lives. It s not for people like us. That s for the lucky ones. I should get a real job and not be so silly. 30 I m not good enough or will never be good enough. It will never happen to me. Only people with money can make money. There have been many people that have become millionaires after coming from a poverty lifestyle. They have decided to adjust their thoughts about money and became determined to change their lives for the better The Way to Change It s time to start changing the way you speak and acknowledge how you have been speaking to yourself. Don t believe everything that someone says about you. It s not true and you need to challenge those words. If you or someone else says you can t do something then change those words and beliefs and go and prove them wrong kept trying and eventually mastered the art of riding a bicycle. As children we are pretty much fearless but as voices. We must remember to say something positive every day about ourselves. Start saying I can instead of I can t. Just one more thing I would like to share with you. It s about our subconscious. As we speak negatively about others our subconscious does not know who we are speaking about. It just begins to sink deep within us. It will begin to make us feel horrible and downtrodden. We need to speak rightly. The bible says A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart brings forth evil. For out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks. Luke 6 45 (NKJV) We need to speak positively. Positive thinking is not a cure all but it can take you in the right direction to a more successful life. Here s a list of things you can say to yourself every morning I am positive in spite of adversity. I believe my best days are ahead and not behind me. I choose faith over fear. When I am surrounded by pessimism I will choose optimism. I am having the best day of my life. I choose to love not hate. Inspired by and 31 The Rule Breaker By Mark Dudley He has been inducted into the NBA Hall of Fame. He is also known as one of the top defensive players of all time. Dennis Rodman as a member of the Chicago Bulls the Father appointed to Him. Les Brown was born in a garage and left by his mother. He was raised by his grandmother. For years he was called slow retarded and stupid. He had a speech impediment and was placed in a class with Many have questioned his play and he s others who were labeled special. He is been called one of the dirtiest players that now one of the most sought after motivahave ever played the game. tional speakers and has inspired many by n spite of all that others have said Rodman his words of wisdom. continued to play the game that he loved. There is a dream a goal inside every perEvery successful person we read about in son. The rules may be against you and you the Bible or watch on television has gone may have had some bad experiences in life. against the grain and we re willing to do Let your dreams and goals supersede every whatever is necessary to accomplish their obstacle that tells you to continue staying in goals. your comfort zone. Playing it small or being afraid to venture into unknown territories only produces frustration. Sometime you have to be a rule breaker in order to reach your destiny. I ve always had a desire to write a book. I was not able to go to college to learn literature but my passion to write was greater than anything. In the Bible God called a man named Mo- Elegant Dreams Magazine is a place for ses and commissioned him to be a deliver- rule breakers. It is a place for those who er for the people of Israel who have been in have been disappointed rejected by others or told that you re not good enough to person who had a problem speaking and he write in an online magazine. was afraid that the king of Egypt would not We re here to inspire you to go beyond the allow the people to go free. But by God s limits to be the one who breaks the mold grace and power Moses accomplished the and go where no one has gone before. assignment given him by God. Life has no remote control. If you want to When Jesus was born many people were change it get up get out and get going. under the impression that nothing good could come out of Nazareth. Jesus went 32 33 Springtime Lunch Sides By Ashley Newkirk 34 35 Photos and Article by Lindsey Pavlyuchek Photos by Libby Ross around the museum to view some of the cars on in Tacoma Washington holds a really popular event you will witness a wide variety of cars and trucks pull into the parking lot of the garage. Vehicles will car enthusiasts from all over the United States which makes each event a completely new surprise. Griot s Garage holds this free event every single month to entice old and young alike. The audience ranges from youngsters in their twenties to those in their late seventies. Once the large parking lot is full everyone gathers in the beautiful old-fashion After you indulge in the delicious food and socialize with other car fanatics you can take a walk very rare and you probably have never seen them in person before. As you walk out of the museum you will enter the shop. In the shop you will be able to purchase some of Griot s exclusive items such as their professional cleaning kit or their special tools that they work with on some of the most astonishing vehicles around the world. is an excellent experience you would not want to miss. The best part is that it is completely free to the public and anyone can bring their vehicle in for the show Just make sure to bring a handkerchief to wipe all the drool from your mouth as you walk around the parking lot. Vroom vroom 36 37 The Retro Brand 38 WWW.THERETROBRAND.COM 39 Dreading the Days By Jennett A. Anderson - - - 40 41 How to Build a Budget By Tom Krawczyk CONTROL YOUR BILLS (and Achieve Your Goals)--Or They WILL Control You Nothing will help you take control of your bills and expenses and help you meet your goals better than understanding how much you spend every month compared to how much you earn. That readers is all a budget is a plan for where your income is spent. Following this approach and then modifying it to meet your lifestyle will it. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat. I think you get the idea. picture of a template I use to start others I ve worked with down the path. Here are some starting guidelines Include ALL income. Include ALL expenses--if you spend it account for it somewhere. 3. th and 30th CATEGORIES Total Income NET PAY (gross pay minus taxes) and any other income (add in monthly if it varies or only comes sometimes) EXPENSES Tithes and Offerings Planned and possibly automatic withdrawals to church and other charities. Automatic Withdrawals These are often forgotten once they are set up. What automatic payments are in place Insurances investments car loans etc. Fixed Payments Typically these bills or debt don t change in amount. Rent or mortgage car payments (if not in automatic withdrawals) minimum payments on credit cards health insurance health or other club memberships etc. Monthly Bills These may change seasonally or depending on usage. Utilities cell phones etc. Suggestion your utility and ask if they have a budget plan that estimates your total year s usage based on history and charges you a set amount every month. At the end of the year there s a true up where you pay more if you underpaid for the year or get a discount on that month s bill if you overpaid. Cash Envelopes Yes I recommend using envelopes to help you stick to your budget. I have a budget for each category as listed. When I go grocery shopping I spend from that envelope. Once you have this amount set correctly when the money is gone from an envelope you can take more from another if needed or live without it. Here s where the discipline comes in but remember it s a plan not legal limits. Your only hard limit is your income. Ledgered Accounts These are expenses you are planning for but don t necessarily spend every month. My water bill is due every other month. I budget half the normal amount each month and keep it in checking or 42 move it to savings. Same approach to saving for a new car vacation etc. The Bottom Line Balance Total income minus total expenses--you want a positive number here. If it s negative you re planning to spend more than you take in. That can only happen with debt or taking money from savings. I move this money to savings for emergencies or a rainy day YOU CAN DO THIS It takes patience and discipline but at the end of the day doing this will save you money as you see where you spend it. As for the savings you gain you re essentially paying yourself Here s my budget template numbers are only samples--there is no relationship of any value to a target amount. th and 30th of each month. Mar 13 Net Pay Other Income Net Pay Other 15th 4 000.00 0.00 4 000.00 400 0 30th 4 000.00 500.00 4 500.00 450 50 Notes TITHES & OFFERINGS Church Tithes Church Offerings Total Tithes & Offerings AUTOMATIC WITHDRAWALS Life Insurance Auto Insurance Home Renter s Insurance Net Flix Investment Retirement Car Loan 400 30.00 200.00 30.00 0.00 50.00 200.00 500 0.00 0.00 0.00 16.46 50.00 0.00 Total FIXED PAYMENTS & DEBT Rent Mortgage Medical Insurance Coverage Discover Card Visa Mastercard Credit Card 510 600.00 31.00 0.00 75.00 66 0.00 0.00 184.00 0.00 Total Fixed and Debt MONTHLY BILLS Utilities (Gas Electric) Cell Phones Cable Satellite TV 706 0.00 0.00 125.00 184 200.00 .. 150.00 0.00 Total Monthly Bills CASH ENVELOPES Living Expenses Food Gas Kids Stuff Funded Expenses Personal Cash Sunday Lunch Fund Date Night Christmas Savings Kids Allowances 125 200.00 200.00 0.00 100.00 50.00 30.00 0.00 19.00 0.00 350 200.00 200.00 75.00 100.00 Unexpected unplanned for 100.00 30.00 100.00 23.00 25.00 Total Cash 599 853 LEDGERED ACCOUNTS - MOVE TO SAVINGS UNTIL NEEDED Water Vacation Save for new Car Savings 75.00 50.00 50.00 0.00 0.00 50.00 50.00 0.00 Total to Move SUMMARY Total Out 175 2 515.00 100 2 053.46 Balance Move to savings 1 485.00 2 446.54 43 Inspired Word Ministries By Mark Dudley http 44 e Lounge HOPE I wait for the LORD my soul waits and in his word I put my hope. PSALM 130 5 Inspired by Choice Books PSALM 126 2 45 By Jennett A. Anderson Katharine Houghton Hepburn Biography OCCUPATION Film Actress Theater Actress BIRTH DATE May 12 1907 DEATH DATE June 29 2003 EDUCATION Bryn Mawr College Biography of Katharine Hepburn Katharine Hepburn was an actress known as a spirited performer with a touch of eccentricity in films such as The African Queen and On Golden Pond. Katharine Hepburn became an unlikely Hollywood star in the 1930s with her beauty wit and the eccentric strength in which she imbued each character in a career that spanned five decades. If you always do what interests you at least one person is pleased. This was one of Katharine s favorite quotes. Katharine Houghton Hepburn was born May 12 1907 in Hartford Connecticut to Katharine Martha Houghton a suffrage activist. As a liberal-minded family the Hepburn s encouraged young Katharine to speak out sharpen her mind and engage with the world as fully as possible. The Hepburn s happy family life took a tragic turn in 1921 however when Katharine made the horrifying discovery of her older brother Tom hanging from the ceiling of his bedroom. The loss of her beloved brother completely debilitated Katharine. For years she withdrew almost entirely from those who loved her and from those all around her for a time even adopting Tom s birthday (November 8) as her own. Fortunately for film goers everywhere Katharine Hepburn overcame this huge tragedy of her childhood to become one of the most unique and enduring legends of cinema history. Over the course of six decades in Hollywood she earned twelve Academy Award nominations and won an unprecedented four Best Actress Oscars. Becoming a Star all in Itself While attending the all-women s Bryn Mawr College outside Philadelphia Pennsylvania Katharine fell in love with acting. After graduating from school in 1928 with a degree in history she spent the next several years acting on stage in and around New York appearing in productions both on and off Broadway. She got her big break in screen acting when an RKO Radio Pictures talent scout spotted her in a play and offered an audition for a role starring opposite John Barrymore in the 1932 film A Bill of Divorcement. Hepburn got the part and never looked back. A Bill of Divorcement became a hit and RKO offered Hepburn a lucrative long-term contract to make films for the studio. Hepburn won the first of her four Academy Awards just a year later for her performance in Morning Glory opposite Douglas Fairbanks Jr. and Adolphe Menjou. Soon after her performance as Jo in the hit big-screen adaptation of the beloved novel Little Women won her great acclaim. Hepburn won recognition throughout the world as a formidable on-screen presence with a fierce intelligence unique among actresses of her stature. 46 Unconventional Attitude Over time though--in spite of Katharine Hepburn s huge acting talent and range--Hollywood began to question her unconventional attitude and strong personality. She refused to play the traditional off-screen role of the Hollywood starlet choosing not to wear makeup at all times give interviews or bask in the glow of media attention. When the costume department at RKO took her slacks away (because they found slacks to be uncouth and boyish) Hepburn walked around the studio in her underwear refusing to put her clothes on until she got her pants back. If you obey all the rules she said you miss all the fun. A true artist and an unlikely Hollywood star she continued to flee media attention and fame for most of her life Once a crowd chased me for an autograph. Beat it I said go sit on a tack We made you they said. Like hell you did I told them. Though she made a series of popular comedies in the late 1930s (the most notable being Bringing Up Baby in 1937 opposite Cary Grant) she also appeared in a handful of flops and producers began to label her box-office poison. Sensing trouble Hepburn ended her contract at RKO and returned to the stage. Back on Broadway Katharine appeared as Tracy Lord in The Philadelphia Story winning huge acclaim. Playwright Philip Barry had written the role specifically with Hepburn in mind critics and audiences alike went wild over the production. Hepburn bought the motion picture rights to the story and headed back to Hollywood where she sold them to MGM on the condition that she would star in the film. With this move she single handedly regenerated her film career and her mass appeal. The 1940 film starring Cary Grant and James Stewart alongside Hepburn earned multiple Academy Award nominations. Hepburn s next life-changing move was the beginning of her enduring on-screen and off-screen relationship with the actor Spencer Tracy. Woman of the Year (1942) the first of nine films the duo would make together was a huge smash. Tracy and Hepburn shared a palpable electric chemistry on and off the screen. The pair fell deeply in love while making their first film together their relationship lasted 27 years even though Tracy was already married and refused to divorce his estranged wife. Hepburn s and Tracy s unwed romance had its ups and downs but Hepburn put her career on hold for five years beginning in 1962 to nurse Tracy through the illness that would ultimately take his life in 1967 just days after the pair completed their last film together Guess Who s Coming to Dinner. Hepburn won another Oscar for her role in the film but always viewed it more as the Academy s tribute to her lost love. Hepburn s Best Actress award for Guess Who s Coming to Dinner had plenty of company in her trophy case. Over the course of her long and prolific career she made dozens of films and garnered a stunning twelve Academy Award nominations winning four. Her credits include many of the most celebrated pictures of all time The Philadelphia Story (1940) The African Queen (1951) Long Day s Journey into Night (1962) Guess Who s Coming to Dinner (1967) The Lion in Winter (1968) and On Golden Pond (1981). She stole the stage from all the leading men of her age Spencer Tracy of course but also Cary Grant James Stewart Humphrey Bogart Charlton Heston and Laurence Olivier to name a few. In 1999 the American Film Institute ranked her the top American screen legend of all time. In the 1990s Katharine Hepburn developed a progressive neurological disease but this did not keep her from keeping up an active lifestyle in her Connecticut hometown and even from acting in select roles. Her last Hollywood film credit came in 1994--more than 60 years after she made her memorable debut in A Bill of Divorcement. Katherine Hepburn died on June 29 2003 at the age of 96 in the same house in which she had grown up. Life is hard she once said. After all it kills you. Katharine Hepburn is a legend. I grew up loving this woman. My all-time favorite movies by Hepburn are On Golden Pond and Little Women. 47 Spring Time Lunch Desserts By Ashley Newkirk In the springtime it seems almost a crime not to make a dessert using fresh fruits and ingredients. It s the season where everything is starting to grow and blossom from owers to berries. Lemon Blueberry Bread Bread 1 cup 1 tbl all purpose our divided 2 tsp baking powder In all my recipes I have used lemons and these desserts are no exception. With all this lemon talk there has to be some type of bene t from it and there is Although the bene ts won t come from drinking or eating a straight lemon in most cases you can use it in conjunction with other things to get amazing bene ts such as helping the pain or irritation of a bug bite and to even keep the pesky li le bugs away. Lemon balm will help with insomnia anxiety and nervousness. One last bene t is it is a natural pain reliever all you do is take the juice from two freshly squeezed lemons mix it with lukewarm water and drink the mixture three times a day. 1 2 tsp salt 1 cup vanilla yogurt 1 cup sugar 3 large eggs 2 tsp lemon zest tsp vanilla extract cup vegetable oil 1 cups fresh blueberries To nish your amazing day with friends and family with a tang I have provided for you three very di erent delicious and succulent fresh desserts that will be sure to please anyone and everyone. e rst dessert I have for you is lemon blueberry sweet bread. Lemon syrup 1 3 cup fresh lemon juice 1 3 cup sugar Lemon glaze 1 cup powdered sugar 4 tbl fresh lemon juice Start o by preheating your oven to 350 degrees. Get your pan ready by greasing a 9X5 loaf pan and sprinkling with our then set aside. 48 In a medium bowl you will whisk together the 1 cups of our baking powder and salt. In a large bowl whisk together yogurt sugar eggs lemon zest vanilla and oil. Slowly add the dry ingredients to the wet ingredients. In a separate bowl take 1 tablespoon of our and mix with the blueberries and then fold into the ba er. Next pour the ba er into the prepped loaf pan and bake for 50-55 minutes. Let the bread cool for ten minutes and then transfer it to a wire rack to cool completely. While the bread is cooling you will make the syrup by combing the lemon juice and sugar in a saucepan over medium heat. It is very important that you stir continuously until the sugar is completely dissolved. Once dissolved stir for three minutes then remove from heat and set aside. Take a toothpick and poke a few holes into the top of your warm sweet bread to make sure it is thoroughly cooked the toothpick should come out clean. Finally brush the bread with your freshly made syrup. To make the lemon glaze simply whisk together powdered sugar and lemon juice pour generously over your sweet bread and let the glaze harden before serving. e next dessert is a very simple and smooth dessert that will win the hearts of your guest who happen to love creamy desserts. Lemon zest strawberry mousse those who like cute will be in love when they see how this dessert is served up. You will want to combine the strawberries 1 tablespoon of sugar lemon zest and salt in a blender then let sit for ten minutes. Next blend until smooth. Mix 2 tablespoons of water and the gelatin in a bowl and let stand for 5 minutes. Place 6 tablespoons of sugar and 3 tablespoons of water in a sauce pan bring to a simmer and cook 4 minutes. Add the egg whites to the gelatin mix and whip with the mixer until foamy. It will take around 1 minute. Gradually add the remaining sugar and whip on a high speed until so peaks form. If you do not know what a so peak is do not worry follow this trick. Simply turn your mixer upside down and if it has a small peak that curls like the Dairy Queen ice cream swirl on top it is so . Once you get a so peak pour slowly into this mix the hot sugar syrup then whip into sti peaks. A sti peak is the same idea as a so peak except the mixture won t curl it will stay upright. Whip the cream and vanilla until sti peaks form. en fold the egg white mixture into the whipped cream. A erward fold strawberries into the mix. Cut the lemons in half and completely core them out. Fill the hollowed out lemons with your mousse and let chill for 2 hours. Lemon Zest Strawberry Mousse 1 cup chopped strawberries cup sugar divided 1 tbl of lemon zest Pinch of salt 1 tsp un avored gelatin 2 large egg whites tsp vanilla 1 cup of heavy whipping cream 3 large lemons Last but not least and possibly my favorite springtime dessert lime bars. Lime Bar Crust 1 cups all purpose our cup confectioners sugar tsp salt 8 tbl so ened and cut into 1 inch pieces To make the crust cover a 9 square pan with aluminum foil leaving excess on the outside of the pan and spray the foil with a non-stick spray. 49 You will then transfer the lling into a saucepan adding the bu er and stirring continuously over medium heat until it begins thickening slightly. Pour the curd through a strainer into a medium-sized bowl add the heavy cream and stir completely. is will complete your lling. It is important that you pour your lling into the crust while the crust is still warm. Bake for an additional 10 to 15 minutes until the lling has a nice shine and the center jiggles just slightly. Let cool completely remove using the extra foil on the outside and dust with powdered sugar. Add our powdered sugar and salt into your blender. Pulse your blender a few times until combined. Add the bu er one piece at a time each time pulsing for 10 seconds. Mix until the mixture is a so yellow and looks likes coarse meal. Dump this into your prepared pan and use your ngers to evenly press the mix into the pan. Let the crust chill in the fridge for 3 minutes. While waiting allow your oven to preheat to 350. Once the crust has chilled bake it in the oven for 20 minutes. Lime Bar Filling 7 large egg yolks plus 2 large eggs 1 cup 2 tbl sugar2 3 cup freshly squeezed lime juice 1 4 cup lime zest Pinch of salt 4 tbl bu er cut into 4 pieces 3 tbl heavy whipping cream is lling will be fresher and the process will be more time e cient if you make this lling while the crust is baking. In a medium sized bowl whisk the egg yolks and eggs together until combined. In a small bowl combine the sugar and lime the zest using your ngers to rub the zest until the sugar is moist. Add the sugar into the egg mix and whisk together. Add the lime juice and salt whisk again. 50 ese three sweet springtime treats are sure to please all your guests whether they choose to indulge in all three or just one. No one will be le out. If the entire job was done right all your guests will be going home satis ed and raving about the great food they had while in your company. Advertising space is now available 51 Destination America and Beyond Sawgrass Golf Resort and Spa Photographed by Dorita Tolbert Sawgrass Golf Resort & Spa is an excellent retreat with sun golf and pampering for everyone from business to pleasure to a family friendly resort with a touch of elegance. 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